Red Light Indicates the Doors are Secured

[vixalicious]

I read once that in order to have someone in your life, you have to make space for them. A feng shui thing - the article suggested that you decorate sort of as if that person were there, that you need a second nightstand on the other side of your bed, and that you should have things there that invite the type of person you want there.

I thought about that tonight as I crawled into bed. There's no pillow on the other side of my bed. The lampshade that's sitting on the nightstand, sans lamp, is still wrapped in plastic.

I'm not ready for someone else in my life right now, and that's okay.