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vixalicious ([personal profile] vixalicious) wrote2008-08-01 01:40 pm
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Seriously confused...

Why do men on online dating sites seem to think I'd be a great dominatrix? I don't get it.
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[identity profile] asknosecrets.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
They don't, they just hope. The number of guys who secretly want to be told they're a naughty boy and spanked is... startling.
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[personal profile] vixalicious 2008-08-01 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I suppose so. It just seems like an odd thing to LEAD with, ya know?

[identity profile] asknosecrets.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I don't know much about dating sites, but it seems logical to me - they know what they want, so by leading with it, they eliminate anyone who goes "Hell no!", rather than spending time getting to know people who then run away.


...wait, did I just apply logic to the internet? Um...
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[personal profile] vixalicious 2008-08-01 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL, yes, but you're probably right! I could understand it if my profile was in the 'hi, I just want sex' portion of the site, but it's in the Relationships area so it surprised me.

[identity profile] noey-too.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Haha! You didn't post a writing sample, did you? I can think of a couple logs you've posted in the past that might give them that idea. ;)
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[personal profile] vixalicious 2008-08-01 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I write subs! I'd be the world's worst domme!

[identity profile] noey-too.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe I'm remembering wrong. I could have sworn you had me read one of Kate's logs a while back and she was domming... some guy. Hmm, or maybe I imagined it. ;P

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[personal profile] vixalicious 2008-08-01 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, yeah, there was that. But I was bad at it! Those took forever to write!

[identity profile] noey-too.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Stop, everything you write is awesome. I'm so jealous.

*hearts you*

Personally, if a guy on a dating site started right off with the sex talk I'd back away quickly. I'm a Big Honking Romantic at heart and I want to be wooed.
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[personal profile] vixalicious 2008-08-01 07:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm totally not responding. I just don't understand the leading off with that.

[identity profile] aubieturtle.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
What name are you using? "Vix" in Vixalicious might make them think of vixen, which in turn fits in the with dominatrix theme. Also, do you still have posted the photo of you standing next to a woman in body paint? Not that it in any way makes you look like a dominatrix but it does focus the mind towards nudity and thus sex.

[identity profile] juweldom.livejournal.com 2008-08-01 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a simple numbers game. If you have any knowledge of kink at all, they're going to ask, because the highest number of kinksters out there are submissive men. The second highest are submissive women. *g*

I agree with Jack--they don't think; they just hope. And the Internet is a safe place to ask and reach for things you wouldn't ordinarily ask a woman.

[identity profile] the-grapevine.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 02:33 pm (UTC)(link)
You know that post just made me laugh!!!!!!

Yes I am waaaaaayyyyy, late on all things LJ. I don't even think I've made a post in like 4 months. Let alone read anything anyone else has posted. I'm doing a little catch up reading now.

We will have to chat soon.
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